He’s Important to Me

I volunteer at a teen residential facility, leading spiritual initiatives as a sort of a chaplain. Earlier this week I visited the thisismyprayerforyouedited-640x360students hoping to encourage them and inspire a walk with Christ in them. A father of one of the young ladies was visiting that day. She brought him to me and introduced us and told her dad that I was the spiritual guy. I explained to him what that meant so her father would understand the role of our Sunday Spiritual times. Then the young lady told her father that I was important to her and explained why. She self-harms and I encourage her not too. I basically told her I don’t like it when she it hurt, even if she is the one hurting herself and asked about how long she had gone since the last time without harming herself. She told me and added it had been four days this time. I encouraged her to go for the goal of one more day than the last time and then we set the goal of one more day each after.

I am important to her because I don’t want her to hurt herself. honestly, it hurts my heart to know that she would purposely  hurt herself. She wants to have a relationship that builds and holds her up. One that she can trust and rely on for support and help. Knowing her background, she has the love and support she needs, but a couple of things have blocked her understanding (besides the confusing messages our world, media and her friends give). One is her understanding about herself which got sidetracked at some point and another is her parents, though they love her, haven’t learned how best to make that understood in her life.

I am not casting blame here, I am citing reality.

One of the things that provided an open dialog between this young lady and myself is that I told here I have prayed for her. She had been struggling one day when I was visiting about 6 months ago and it took her back. She asked in surprise, “You pray prayfor me?” She was shocked. I told her that I do. I told her I prayed for every one of the students there and especially when I know she is struggling, I pray for her more. Apparently, that touched her. She responded, “No one ever prayed for except my mom.”

What she doesn’t realize is that there are others who pray for her besides her mother (and father) and me. There are coaches, who are saints (i.e. Christians) who pray for her as well. I’ll bet there is other family and maybe family friends praying for her.

What she is realizing and God seems to be using me to help bring this realization into her life, is that she is important, even extraordinary (thank you Aaron Chambers*). God loves her and cares for her. People love her and care about her. She is learning that when she feels safe, it is with people who are people of God. She understands that this God-thing is real and it is reaching deep into her life and bringing here hope and even joy, when she remains in her understanding of God’s love. She is realizing, “For God so loved the world,” that God loves her.

Due to confidentiality, I cannot tell you anymore, but I ask that you pray for her. God will know who you are praying for even if you do not know her name or where she is. He knows because he cares, because he loves her too.

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*Remember Who You Are, Unleashing the Power of an Identity Driven Life, by Aaron Chambers, Standard Publishing, Cincinnati, Ohio, 2007, citing chapter 9; http://www.standardpub.com/Products/24324/remember-who-you-are.aspx

“I Believe!”

Yesterday was a very emotional day for me. See, I visited the teens in the residential counseling facility that I work with. I wanted to see them a couple of days before Christmas and share cookies and Christmas wishes with them.

About two thirds of the kids were gone for the holidays. I brought cookies, Christmas wishes and Christmas hugs.

I always go around and say hi to everyone and see how people are doing. Are they struggling? Are they having a great week? That sort of thing. As I was visiting with one young man, he showed me a picture he was working on. He told me he would like to give me the picture when he finishes. I thought that was really nice and told him thank you. He said, “You’re a part of my life and you mean a lot to me. You made me believe in Jesus.”

Now I get soft-hearted now and then, this was one of those times. This troubled young man, struggling with self-worth issues touched me deeply. I am so happy he believes in Jesus. I look forward to helping him move forward in his belief. I know it will bring healing to him.

That is one of the reasons I continue to invest myself in the lives of these teens. To see them change, to help them see God and learn about Jesus.

May God be blessed.

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At LOOOONG Last!

Working with troubled teens is important to me.  It’s not that it is rewarding, it is and I’m not that selfish and vain, that’s not what I’m looking for.  What it is, is the help and encouragement that is made in their lives.

I have worked with teens in a particular residential facility for 2 1/2 years.  For most of that time, I have been responsible for what is called “spiritual time” on Sunday’s.  It’s not church, though a couple of the kids have called it that.  It’s not a conversion class or proselytization time, it is to help the kids learn and grow and build their self-worth with teachings from the Bible…lessons on trust, forgiveness, respect, and such.  At the same time, many of the students have told me what their spiritual struggles are, from wanting to believe in God to how to deal with life or the difficulties of life and many more.

About two years ago, some of the students asked for a weekly Bible study.  When we were certain they had a real interest and it wasn’t a means to gain attention or avoid programing, we set about trying to establish one.  The final couple of hurdles are being hurdled (you don’t jump hurdles, you hurdle them).  One was scheduling.  The other, cirriculum.  We have crossed those hurdles are getting the materials together, organizing the class and will begin in a couple of weeks.

An added bonus is that the students can also receive school credit for the Bible study.

Thank God that he is opening doors to teach a small portion of this young generation about his word.

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